“A Woman’s Power Is Directly Proportional to the Amount of Pleasure She Is Experiencing in Her Life”

For most of my life, I didn’t understand the connection between pleasure and power. I used to think being powerful meant being productive, being in control, having everything together. I thought it meant sacrificing comfort to be successful, suppressing my feelings to be “strong,” and denying myself joy to be “disciplined.” I wore my burnout like a badge of honor—until my body, spirit, and emotions started to crumble.

But then I discovered something that changed everything: My power—my true, magnetic, feminine power—was never about how much I was doing. It was about how much I was allowing. How much I was feeling. How much pleasure I was open to receiving.

And pleasure doesn’t just mean sensuality or intimacy. It means joy, aliveness, softness, ease.

It’s the way I breathe deeply when I slow down. It’s the way I giggle while dancing in my living room in a flowy dress. It’s the way I take a walk without guilt. It’s the way I let the sun hit my face without rushing to the next thing. It’s the way I create when I feel inspired—not when I feel forced.

There was a time when I denied myself these little pleasures because I thought they were indulgent. But the truth is:

They revive me. They return me to myself. They reconnect me to my truth.

The more pleasure I allowed into my life, the more aligned I became with my intuition. I started making decisions from a grounded, confident place. I stopped chasing external validation and started choosing what actually felt good. That’s when everything began to shift—my relationships, my health, my business, and my creativity.

This quote—“A woman’s power is directly proportional to the amount of pleasure she is experiencing in her life”—hit me like a truth I already knew deep in my bones but had forgotten.

If you’ve been hustling, pushing, and denying your joy to be “enough”...What if the most revolutionary thing you could do is allow yourself to feel good again?

💫 Run the bath.

💫 Light the candle.

💫 Take the walk.

💫 Wear the soft dress for no reason.

💫 Say no to what drains you.

💫 Say yes to what makes you come alive.

💫 Rest without guilt.

💫 Create without pressure.

Your pleasure isn’t a distraction from your power—it’s the path to it.

This is your permission to soften into joy. To embody your power, not by force—but through pleasure.And when you do, you don’t just feel better—you become her. The version of you who glows, leads, and lives with unshakable presence.